try to analyze why you admire her appearance

Choose the friend (or enemy) whom you consider to have the best taste and whom you envy most. Try to analyze why you admire her appearance. Every time you see her, figure out what she has done to make herself appear the ultimate in good taste. Later, when you’re alone, analyze it on paper.

Corinth, Kay. Sargeant, Mary. 1966. All About Entertaining: Everything You Need to Know to Have a Fabulous Social Life. New York. David McKay Co. Inc. p. 380